Need Advice?

Anonymous asked: hey , i'm 14 and i never had a boyfriend and all my friends already had one , and sometimes i fell so bad about it , like i fell so ugly and fat :c and i fell bad about my self :c !

I’m the exact same way. I still haven’t had a boyfriend and all my friends have too. Don’t feel bad about it, I like to say that I’m waiting for just the right person.

You are beautiful, NOT fat or ugly :( Never ever call yourself that. Honestly, what I think guys look for most in a girl is confidence. So don’t be insecure about yourself! Look in the mirror everyday and call yourself beautiful. It seems weird, but after a while, you’ll start to believe it. You’re gorgeous! <3

~Grace

Anonymous asked: where should i go to get some help on emotion problems?

You can always talk to us off anonymous and we will do our best to help you. But if you really need help, talk to your mom about going to a therapist. A friend of mine was very depressed and suicidal, and she went to a therapist. At first she didn’t want to go, but it really helped her and she’s a lot better now :)

~Grace

Anonymous asked: hi, i'm 16. and everyone around me thinks there's soemthign wrong with me and i need help. Nothings wrong with me i dont think, i'm used to my thoughts and in weird ways i like them now. but everyones far off from how i feel and think, i cant tell them cause i cant talk when i come face to face with them. I want to kill myself, i just dont know how to. i dotn want to fail, cause then i wont be able to handle it. what should i do?

First of all there’s nothing wrong with you at all. You’re just trying to figure out who you are, and soon you will. Everyone gets those thoughts every now and again. I do, I can say that. This is what you need to do, you need to find a friend and very trustworthy friend in which you guys can both tell each other things. And don’t be afraid to talk to people because they’re just going to help. Please don’t kill yourself though, I promise you it’s not the only way out. You have a huge future ahead of you and these thoughts you’re having don’t last forever. Soon enough you can move away if you really don’t want to talk to the people you’ve been around. Just please don’t kill yourself you’re worth it, and you have a purpose on this Earth. Stay strong <3

~Alyssa

Anonymous asked: One of my BEST guy friends is getting played by this girl.. Hes really upset and thinking of suicude.. I don't know what to do! please help!!

He should defiantly talk to that girl in which he’s being ‘played’ by. He needs to settle things with her first. And try to talk him out of suicide as best as you can, by saying that he has so much to live for and a big future ahead of him, he shouldn’t have one girl in his life ruin him, because it’s true. Tell him to stay strong, and that he can do much better I bet he can!
~Alyssa